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title: 息子と彼岸花
author: 松尾洋子
date: 2025-10-10 17:30
categories: [くらし, 女性投稿欄 紅皿]
tags: [彼岸花, 秋, 家族]
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今年も彼岸花が咲き始めた。彼岸花は突然現れたように咲いているので、「いつの間に咲いた！？」と毎年軽く驚いてしまう。
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### 西日本新聞meとは？
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【女性投稿欄 紅皿】
紅皿（すすきと夕焼け）
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Η Μαρία Καρυστιανού, μητέρα της Μάρθης Ψαροπούλου που σκοτώθηκε στην σιδηροδρομική τραγωδία στα Τέμπη και πρόεδρος του Συλλόγου Πληγέντων Δυστυχήματος «Τέμπη 2023», επανέλαβε σε συνέντευξή της ότι δεν έχει εμπιστοσύνη στις ελληνικές αρχές.
Μιλώντας στον Alpha, μετά την έγκριση που δόθηκε για την εκταφή των σορών των θυμάτων, χάρη στην απεργία πείνας του Πάνου Ρούτσι, η κ. Καρυστιανού δήλωσε:
«Δικαίως δεν έχουμε εμπιστοσύνη στις ελληνικές αρχές. Δεν έγινε έρευνα για την έκρηξη, ενώ έχουμε σοβαρές ενδείξεις ότι ο κόσμος δεν πέθανε από τη σύγκρουση, δεν μπορούσε να αναπνεύσει».
Στη συνέχεια, η ίδια τόνισε:
«Αφού μετά από 23 μέρες δόθηκε το πράσινο φως για να γίνει αυτό που έπρεπε από την αρχή, στόχος μας είναι να μπορέσουν να βρουν εξειδικευμένα εργαστήρια και ιατροδικαστές, για να γίνουν οι έλεγχοι, που θα μας δώσουν απαντήσεις στα ερωτήματα που έχουμε. Είναι πιο δύσκολη τώρα η διαδικασία, έχουν περάσει και δυόμισι χρόνια από τότε».
«Δεν έχουμε καμία εμπιστοσύνη στις ελληνικές αρχές. Θα μας αδικήσει κάποιος γι’ αυτό;» πρόσθεσε, και συνέχισε:
«Θέλουμε να βάλουμε δικούς μας επιστήμονες από το εξωτερικό, ενώ και τα αποτελέσματα θα σταλούν σε εργαστήρια του εξωτερικού. Έχουμε ζητήσει πολλές φορές εκταφή γιατί είχαμε αναπάντητα ερωτήματα. Οι ιατροδικαστές έπρεπε να μας πουν και τις συνθήκες θανάτου και την αιτία. Εμείς αυτά δεν τα γνωρίζαμε. Μέχρι να βγουν τα ηχητικά, μας έλεγαν ότι όλοι πέθαναν ακαριαία, και μετά μάθαμε ότι πολλοί ζούσαν και πέθαναν από τη φωτιά. Ωστόσο, συνέχισαν να αρχειοθετούν τις μηνύσεις που κάναμε για τους ιατροδικαστές και να απορρίπτουν τα αιτήματά μας για εκταφή και τοξικολογικές εξετάσεις».
Η κ. Καρυστιανού υπογράμμισε ακόμα:
«Δικαίως δεν έχουμε καθόλου εμπιστοσύνη, και είναι σημαντικό να πω ότι δεν θα ήμασταν στη σημερινή κατάσταση αν είχαμε τα δείγματα του βιολογικού υλικού, τα οποία κατέστρεψε παράνομα ο επιλεγμένος ανακριτής Μπακαΐμης, στις 40 ημέρες, χωρίς να έχουν βγει οι ιατροδικαστικές εκθέσεις».
### Οι δηλώσεις της Μαρίας Καρυστιανού: Γιατί οι συγγενείς των θυμάτων ζητούν εκταφή των σορών
«Υπάρχουν σοβαρές ενδείξεις ότι εκείνη την ώρα ο κόσμος δεν μπορούσε να αναπνεύσει. Ανέπνεαν και καίγονταν εσωτερικά. Έχουμε χημικά εγκαύματα ακόμα και στους διασώστες, και ιατροδικαστές που αναφέρουν εγκαύματα από έλαιο σιλικόνης. Έχουμε ενδείξεις ότι υπήρχαν χημικά», σημείωσε η Μαρία Καρυστιανού.
«Παρ’ όλο που ο αέρας έκαιγε, αποφάσισαν ότι δεν πρέπει να γίνει αυτοψία ή τοξικολογικός έλεγχος. Δεν έγινε τίποτα. Δεν διαπίστωσαν αν οι άνθρωποι πέθαναν από τη σύγκρουση ή μετά από αυτήν», κατήγγειλε, τονίζοντας ότι υπήρχαν ενδείξεις για απανθρακωμένους.
### «Δίκη χωρίς ενόχους» – Οι αναφορές σε Καραμανλή και Τριαντόπουλο
«Ετοιμαζόμαστε να πάμε σε δίκη χωρίς να υπάρχει ένοχος ή έρευνα για την έκρηξη. Εμείς, που οι άνθρωποί μας κάηκαν ζωντανοί, τι έχουμε να περιμένουμε; Τον Καραμανλή που τον άφησαν εκτός κάδρου; Τους υπουργούς, για να μας πουν για πλημμελήματα; Εμείς έχουμε χαμηλές προσδοκίες», υπογράμμισε η Μαρία Καρυστιανού.
Η μητέρα της αδικοχαμένης Μάρθης κατηγόρησε τις δικαστικές αρχές και την κυβέρνηση για «κουτσουρεμένη ανάκριση» και για προσπάθεια «μπαζώματος» της έρευνας.
Μάλιστα, άφησε σαφείς αιχμές για τον Χρήστο Τριαντόπουλο:
«Αν δεν είχαν γίνει εξαρχής τα μπαζώματα από τον κ. Τριαντόπουλο, θα είχαμε ήδη τα στοιχεία και θα είχε ξεκινήσει η δίκη», υπογράμμισε.
«Δεν θα είναι δίκη, αλλά παρωδία», κατέληξε η κ. Καρυστιανού.
https://www.tanea.gr/2025/10/09/greece/maria-karystianou-exoume-endeikseis-oti-ypirxan-ximika-sta-tempi-pame-se-mia-diki-xoris-enoxous/
Dolly Parton’s sister, Freida, has urged fans to keep the Queen of Country in their prayers, revealing that Dolly “hasn’t been feeling her best lately.”
Concerns about Parton’s health have increased among fans since she delayed her start of her Las Vegas residency in late September due to medical reasons.
Taking to social media, Freida shared a heartfelt message:
“Last night, I was up all night praying for my sister, Dolly. Many of you know she hasn’t been feeling her best lately. I truly believe in the power of prayer, and I have been led to ask all of the world that loves her to be prayer warriors and pray with me,” she wrote in a post on Tuesday.
This is a developing story. More updates to come.
https://www.livemint.com/news/us-news/whats-wrong-with-dolly-partons-health-fans-concerned-after-sister-freida-asks-for-prayers-11759880769570.html
Lauren Sanchez looked incredible in a Valentino dress as she joined husband Jeff Bezos and his daughter for a lavish dinner in Paris on Sunday.
The former journalist, 55, was snapped exiting alongside the billionaire Amazon tycoon, 61, and his adoptive daughter, whom he shares with ex-wife MacKenzie Scott. The American philanthropist was the epitome of fashion in the silk ruched number, flashing a glimpse of her ample assets. She accessorised the stunning dinner look with a quilted red chain-strap bag, also from Valentino, and wore elegant matching heels.
Meanwhile, the business mogul opted for an all-black look and shielded behind dark shades.
The wealthy entrepreneur, who was ranked by Forbes as the third richest person in the world in May 2025, shares three sons and one daughter with his ex-wife MacKenzie, and one adopted son with Lauren, who also has three kids of her own.
The couple’s appearance comes almost three months after she said “I do” to Jeff during their Venice nuptials. Described as the “wedding of the century,” the Amazon founder and former journalist exchanged vows in front of almost 200 VIP guests on San Giorgio Maggiore island.
Following the ultra-exclusive ceremony, the billionaire couple threw a star-studded reception attended by high-profile guests, including the Kardashian sisters, Oprah Winfrey, Ivanka Trump, Usher, and Orlando Bloom. The extravagant affair, reportedly costing $20 million and drawing ire from locals, was capped off with an eyebrow-raising gift from the bride.
The wedding, held two years after Jeff proposed to Lauren aboard his $500 million superyacht, was described as “extremely intimate” with a strict no-phone policy. Around 70 of the 200 guests were family members.
During wedding week, the philanthropist debuted her stunning Schwartz ring while stepping out in a Schiaparelli gown. Courtesy of celebrity jeweler Lorraine Schwartz, the ring is believed to be around 30 carats and valued between $1.5 million and $3 million.
“We don’t have a lot of traditions that we’re keeping,” Sanchez told Vogue ahead of the big day. “I mean, I love traditions, but for a 55-year-old woman, it’s a little different.”
While her Dolce earrings served as the traditional “something borrowed,” Lauren gave “something blue” a cosmic twist by carrying an artifact from her recent 11-minute space journey.
“Blue Origin,” she said. “It’s something from my space flight.”
The ex-journalist carried a secret, nearly unattainable souvenir from space, explaining it was “because it was literally one of the most profound experiences I’ve ever had in my life.”
“Seeing Earth from space, I came down and I couldn’t describe it,” she told Vogue. “It was the greatest experience I’ve ever had. Jeff said, ‘It’s gonna change you more than you think,’ and it completely has, visually, spiritually.”
But the lavish celebrations also ruffled some feathers, with the nuptials facing backlash from locals as well as activists.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15164787/Lauren-Sanchez-Jeff-Bezos-daughter-dinner-paris.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=1490
Kanpur (Uttar Pradesh), October 05: A heart-touching incident from Kanpur’s Shastri Nagar has left people both smiling and emotional. A 13-year-old boy visited a jewellery shop with his sister’s engagement ring—not to sell it out of greed, but simply to buy Maggi noodles. This incident has brought attention to the strong affection children often have for noodles and other fast food items.
According to reports, the boy walked into a jewellery shop and asked to sell a gold ring. The shop owner, Pushpendra Jaiswal, noticed the boy’s innocence and gently asked him a few questions. The boy honestly explained that he had brought the ring because he wanted money to buy Maggi noodles.
Realizing something was amiss, the jeweller immediately contacted the boy’s mother and showed her the ring. The mother was shocked to see it and confirmed that it was her daughter’s engagement ring. She also mentioned that her daughter’s wedding was only a few days away. Thankfully, the ring had not been sold, as losing it could have caused great distress to the family.
Reports mentioned that the ring was made of gold, and with gold prices soaring lately, the family could not afford to lose such an expensive piece, especially so close to their daughter’s wedding. The jeweller’s timely intervention proved invaluable in preserving the family’s happiness during this crucial time.
Pushpendra Jaiswal stated that no shop in his market buys items brought by minors without proper verification. Touched by the child’s innocence, he returned the ring to the mother. As she left the shop with her son, she reportedly broke down in tears—both relieved and emotional.
The jeweller is being widely praised for his honesty and sensitivity in handling the situation. The story has since gone viral on social media, with users hailing it as a beautiful example of kindness, awareness, and understanding of children’s innocent wishes.
This incident highlights the importance of guiding children’s small desires with love and care, even when they may seem naive. Acts of empathy and honesty go a long way in nurturing trust and compassion within communities.
Dear Vanessa,
My husband and I are both 58, still working, and still paying off our mortgage. Our two adult children, in their early 20s, still live at home with us. Between the mortgage, bills, and supporting them, money is tight, and retirement feels like a long way off.
My mum, who is 80, recently told my kids before she even told me that she plans to leave her house directly to them when she passes, not to me. She says it’s so expensive for young people to buy property and she wants to give them a leg up.
I love that her intention is to help them, but it really hurt to be left out of the conversation. My husband keeps saying I should tell her that we need the money too, but I don’t want to make her feel guilty or worry about me. I just wish she had asked what I thought before making promises.
Now that the kids know about it, they’re almost waiting for that inheritance. It’s changed the way they talk about money, and I worry it’s made them less motivated to work harder for themselves, thinking that a big windfall is on the way.
Am I wrong to feel upset?
— Gwen
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Dear Gwen,
You are not wrong at all. What you’re feeling is completely natural.
Wills are never just about money; they’re about being recognised, included, and respected. Your mum’s decision may have come from love and generosity, but telling your kids before talking to you has created a big emotional gap.
It’s wonderful that she wants to help your children in a tough housing market. But what she may not see is that you and your husband are still carrying heavy financial responsibilities, and her approach has created a problem for the next generation. By promising them her house now, she’s given them a sense of certainty that can easily take away the hunger to build their own future.
That’s why this situation needs both honesty and planning.
First, I’d encourage you to have a calm, open conversation with your mum—not about demanding her money, but about how her choice makes you and your husband feel, and the effect it’s already having on your kids. Let her know you love her intention but wish you had been consulted first.
Second, this is a moment where a financial planner could really help—not just for you, but for your mum too. They can show her options that might help the grandchildren without undermining their motivation or causing you and your husband to feel excluded. They can also suggest practical ways to structure an inheritance so it doesn’t create more problems than it solves.
If you’d like to explore this, you can use my free link to find an adviser.
This isn’t just about who gets what; it’s about family relationships and preparing the next generation to stand on their own feet. Your feelings are valid, and by raising this gently now, you give everyone a better chance of keeping both the love and the money intact.
All the best,
Vanessa
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15163089/FLOURISHING-50-Mum-promised-kids-house-left-out.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=1490
Anshula Kapoor, daughter of renowned producer Boney Kapoor and the late Mona Shourie Kapoor, has recently announced her engagement.
She is set to marry writer Rohan Thakkar, marking an exciting new chapter in her life.
The couple’s engagement has been celebrated by family and fans alike, highlighting a joyful moment for the Kapoor family.
https://www.newsbytesapp.com/news/entertainment/anshula-kapoor-announces-her-engagement/story
**Bobby Deol on Son Aryaman’s Bollywood Debut: “He’s Training and Will Take His First Step When Ready”**
*By Isha Sharma | Oct 04, 2025*
Bobby Deol, currently receiving praise for his performance in the Netflix series *The Ba***ds Of Bollywood*, recently opened up about his son Aryaman Deol’s upcoming acting debut.
In an interview with Times Now, Bobby revealed that while Aryaman has already been receiving acting offers and is currently undergoing training, he won’t be stepping into the limelight just yet. “There are a lot of offers that come, but I don’t want to throw him in the middle of the ocean without knowing how to swim,” he explained.
### Focus on Training and Understanding the Craft
Bobby emphasized the importance of Aryaman first grasping the art of acting before making his debut. “I want him to first understand the art. And then take his first step. He is working, he is training. So, I want him to first understand the art, and then take his first step. He is working on himself,” said Bobby.
### Supporting Aryan Khan’s Directorial Debut
In the same interview, Bobby also talked about his support for Aryan Khan’s directorial debut with *The Ba***ds Of Bollywood*. He revealed that he accepted the role instantly, empathizing with the pressure Aryan faces as the son of superstar Shah Rukh Khan. “I know how difficult it is, even being from the industry, to be superstar Shah Rukh’s son. The kind of pressure he has,” Bobby shared.
### Praising Aryan Khan’s Calm and Mature Direction
Bobby praised Aryan’s calm and mature demeanor while directing the series. “There was not a single day on the set where he lost his cool or raised his voice,” Bobby noted. He joked that Aryan made them do multiple takes whenever he wasn’t satisfied with a shot, showcasing his dedication to the craft.
*The Ba***ds Of Bollywood* is now streaming on Netflix.
https://www.newsbytesapp.com/news/entertainment/bobby-deol-reveals-if-son-aryaman-is-joining-bollywood/story
**Bobby Deol’s Son Aryaman Planning Bollywood Debut? Actor Reveals**
*By Isha Sharma | Oct 04, 2025*
Bobby Deol, who has recently received widespread praise for his performance in *The Ba***ds Of Bollywood*, opened up about his son Aryaman Deol’s potential acting debut in an exclusive interview with Times Now.
While Aryaman has been receiving several acting offers and is currently undergoing training, Bobby clarified that his son is not rushing into Bollywood just yet. He explained, “There are a lot of offers that come, but I don’t want to throw him in the middle of the ocean without knowing how to swim.”
### Focus on Training and Understanding the Craft
Bobby emphasized the importance of Aryaman truly grasping the art of acting before stepping into the limelight. “I want him to first understand the art. And then take his first step. He is working, he is training. And I want him to first understand the art. And then take his first step. So, he is working on himself,” he said.
### Family Support and Insights on Aryan Khan’s Directorial Debut
In the same interview, Bobby also shared his thoughts on supporting Aryan Khan, son of superstar Shah Rukh Khan, in his directorial debut with *The Ba***ds Of Bollywood*. Deol mentioned that he agreed to be part of the project immediately, empathizing with the pressures faced by star kids.
“I know how difficult it is, even being from the industry, to be superstar Shah Rukh’s son. The kind of pressure he has,” Bobby remarked.
### Praising Aryan Khan’s Directorial Maturity
Bobby also praised Aryan Khan’s calm and mature approach on set. “There was not a single day on the set where he lost his cool or raised his voice. He was so mature and so calm,” he said.
Jokingly, Deol added that Aryan was meticulous about the shots, often making them do multiple takes until he was satisfied.
*The Ba***ds Of Bollywood* is currently streaming on Netflix.
https://www.newsbytesapp.com/news/entertainment/bobby-deol-reveals-if-son-aryaman-is-joining-bollywood/story
**Bobby Deol’s Son Aryaman Plans Bollywood Debut, Actor Reveals**
*By Isha Sharma | Oct 04, 2025, 10:44 AM*
Bobby Deol, who is currently receiving acclaim for his performance in *The Ba***ds Of Bollywood*, recently opened up about his son Aryaman Deol’s acting debut.
In an interview with Times Now, Bobby shared that Aryaman has been getting several acting offers and is undergoing training to hone his skills. However, he made it clear that Aryaman will not be stepping into the industry just yet.
“There are a lot of offers that come, but I don’t want to throw him in the middle of the ocean without knowing how to swim,” Bobby said, emphasizing the importance of proper preparation.
**Focus on Training and Understanding the Craft**
Bobby stressed that Aryaman’s debut will happen only after he has a solid understanding of the art of acting. “I want him to first understand the art. And then take his first step. He is working, he is training. So, I want him to first understand the art, and then take his first step. He is working on himself,” he explained.
**Family Support: Backing Aryan Khan’s Directorial Debut**
The actor also spoke candidly about supporting Aryan Khan’s directorial debut with *The Ba***ds Of Bollywood*. Bobby revealed that he immediately agreed to be part of the project, understanding the immense pressure faced by children of superstars.
“I know how difficult it is, even being from the industry, to be superstar Shah Rukh’s son — the kind of pressure he has,” he shared.
**Praise for Aryan Khan’s Professionalism on Set**
Bobby lauded Aryan Khan’s calm and mature demeanor while directing the series. “There was not a single day on the set where he lost his cool or raised his voice. He was so mature and so calm,” Bobby said appreciatively.
He also added humorously that Aryan made the cast do multiple takes if a shot didn’t meet his satisfaction.
*The Ba***ds Of Bollywood* is currently available for streaming on Netflix.
https://www.newsbytesapp.com/news/entertainment/bobby-deol-reveals-if-son-aryaman-is-joining-bollywood/story
