Viewers as curators

Curators are sprouting like weeds in Pakistan’s art world. A gallery manager, a recent graduate, a mid-career practitioner, an art teacher, an eager writer—even an occasional collector—can suddenly transform into a curator. Most of them are temporary or amateur. These days, it is rare to receive an exhibition invitation that does not bear a curator’s name.

A curator cannot be easily compared with another, but the rise of this title has made the public acknowledge and respect the role of those who are neither makers, buyers, nor gallery owners, but mediators guiding viewers to look at the work (not always new) through a different lens.

What happens when viewers themselves become curators, finding links in the work on display? It is like connecting dots to form a coherent picture: a challenging task, but a rewarding one, leaving behind a sense of achievement. Unaware of how viewers may respond, the designer of the puzzle allows for multiple possibilities. The work is open to anyone who engages and interprets.

A similar experience could be found at *The Shape of Seeing*, curated by Ammar Aziz. The exhibition, held from September 20 to October 5, also marked the opening of ZQ Gallery, a new space in Lahore. Not only because of its location—a narrow street lined with small houses, luxury car showrooms, and lanes of automobile workshops—but also because of the group of artists chosen for its inaugural show, the exhibition has surprised spectators.

Names not usually seen together on a single list appear side by side. The work varies in content, date, technique, medium, genre, and scale. Adding further to the diversity, some are internationally acclaimed figures, while others are relatively unknown or less widely circulated. In that sense, the exhibition lives up to its title, *The Shape of Seeing*.

It offers a rare chance to view art in a hybrid setting: a residential-type space adjoining a white cube gallery. This blend, perhaps born of practical necessity, also raises questions about the disjunction between art created in a studio, displayed in a gallery, and ultimately housed in a corporate building or grand residence.

Some of the work in the show actively responds to the surroundings. Masooma Syed’s *Leaning Shadows*, for instance, occupies a corner that amplifies the lustrous presence of her chandelier-like suspended sculpture. Similarly, Hamra Abbass’ small, minimal marble relief is set in a dimly lit, intimate space, heightening its quiet impact.

In terms of thematic connection, the exhibition invites viewers to search for their own clues; each individual, one assumes, constructs a personal version. Yet a common thread runs through the work. Risham Hosain Syed’s *Texts and Contexts* series from 1996 (painted at the Royal College of Art, London) sits alongside Ayaz Jokhio’s cubit titled *Mugshots* (2024, Back to Basic, Articulate Studios, Lahore), which depicts the unfolding sides of an ordinary teacup.

These are displayed next to Ali Kazim’s two delicate dry pigments on mylar: *Untitled (Cloud Series)* and *Untitled (Lightning Series)*, both from 2019, and Anwar Saeed’s emotive digital piece *Undie ID* (2012). Together, they affirm the timelessness of art.

Read one way, the inaugural show at ZQ Gallery (part of the Zeenat Qureshi Institute of Digital and Regional Arts and Culture) seems to aim at transcending the limitations of time, while also discarding the conventional classification of artists by style, status, or stance.

This is reinforced by the presence of two artworks by Masooma Syed. One is an installation fashioned from old glassware, bottles, beads, chandelier parts, an iron frame, and warm lights. Nearby hangs her large mixed-media work on paper, created primarily with Indian newspapers, its strokes suggesting a European couple rendered in the colonial period. This echo of history is also present in Risham Hosain Syed’s diptych: one panel patterned with the motif of disappearing Victorian lace, the other containing a small but insistent frame within a frame, depicting two men on a motorbike looking at the roadside aftermath of a political protest—a crossroads of vernacular setting and imported turmoil.

Curators are sprouting like weeds in Pakistan’s art world. Those who are neither makers nor buyers nor gallery owners are guiding viewers to look at the work through a different lens.

The presence of the indigenous feels most evident in the exhibits grouped together as *The Shape of Seeing*, even if neither the makers nor, perhaps, the curator consciously intended it. In their materials, concerns, imagery, and issues, many of the artworks seem to narrate the stories of this land. Yet these are not tales buried in the cellars of the soil; rather, they remain in dialogue with narratives from across the world, contributing to an inclusive, diverse, and expansive human account of experiences and emotions.

Consider *Kalila wa-Dimna*, a collection of fables whose animal protagonists trace their origins to the Panchatantra, yet whose content also echoes in Aesop’s fables and, centuries later, in twentieth-century cartoons: Walt Disney’s Mickey Mouse, Universal’s Woody Woodpecker, MGM’s Tom and Jerry, and a long line of other animated characters. Where or when a story began, or how it continues to be retold, matters less. Creative overlaps demonstrate how artistic expressions stick to one another, often without the intention or awareness of their makers.

In this light, Ali Kazim’s brooding skies with a solitary cloud or streak of lightning; Muhammad Ashraf’s scar-like, red impasto surfaces; Imran Ahmed Khan’s paintings and sculptures inspired by the Indus Valley Civilisation, particularly Mehrgarh; and Hamra Abbass’ *Waterfall Drawings*, born of her intensive research into Mughal pietra dura motifs and transformed into a language of geometry and modern art—all point back to this land, its history, its climate, and its shifting realities.

Geography is never complete without its inhabitants. The two often intermingle, as can be seen in the work of Sajjad Ahmed, Shahid Mirza, and Sumera Jawad. Many other artists too have drawn attention to the plight of people trapped in their environment—a community struggling to negotiate questions of identity, individual choice, gender preference, and psychological pressure, perhaps all intertwined.

Anwar Saeed and Mohsin Shafi, in their imagery, explore society’s fixation with the body; its paranoia over power; and its perverse pleasure in subjugation. Rabeya Jalil’s jittery lines, seismic marks, and impulsive layers of paint respond to these very pressures. They suggest how external forces compel human beings to act in prescribed ways: what begins in anguish eventually hardens into habit, even into pleasure, until the two opposing sensations become indistinguishable.

In Jalil’s paintings, the misery of her characters is rendered with an almost playful delight. The scenario is grasped at first glance, yet its echoes can be traced, in different forms, throughout the other works in the exhibition.

In truth, this is the leitmotif of art in our present place and time. Whether one exhibition presents a clear curatorial vision or another appears indifferent to such agendas, both reflect the same reality. They are two sides of the same coin—the currency of art in Pakistan, and perhaps beyond.
https://www.thenews.com.pk/tns/detail/1348308-viewers-as-curators

Today’s Quordle Answers and Hints for October 05, 2025

Quordle Answers (October 05, 2025)

Struggling to solve today’s Quordle? No worries. We have today’s Quordle hints and answers for you to solve it on your own! If you’re a fan of word puzzles, you probably already know that Quordle is a more challenging version of Wordle. Instead of guessing just one word, Quordle requires you to guess four five-letter words simultaneously within nine attempts.

We’ll offer a few hints to nudge you in the right direction for solving today’s Quordle (October 05, 2025) on your own. If you’re still struggling, we’ll reveal the Quordle answers as well. Oh, and yes, we also have today’s answers for Quordle Chill and Quordle Extreme modes. And if you still want more, we have the answers for Quordle Sequence and the Quordle Weekly Challenge.

Ready to tackle today’s Quordle? Let’s dive in!

WARNING: Spoilers ahead! Only read on if you want to know today’s Quordle answers.

PS: We’re revealing the Quordle answers for Sunday, October 05, 2025. If you’re looking for yesterday’s answers, find Quordle answers for Saturday, October 4, 2025 here.

Today’s Daily Quordle Hints

Let’s start with the Daily Quordle. Here are a few hints to help you solve the puzzles:

  • Daily Quordle Hint 1: How many vowels are in each word?
    – The first word (top-left) has 2 vowels.
    – The second word (top-right) has 2 vowels.
    – The third word (bottom-left) has 2 vowels.
    – The fourth word (bottom-right) has 1 vowel.
  • Daily Quordle Hint 2: How many double letters are there in today’s words?
    – The first word (top-left) has 1 letter repeated twice.
    – The second word (top-right) has no repeated letters.
    – The third word (bottom-left) has no repeated letters.
    – The fourth word (bottom-right) has no repeated letters.
  • Daily Quordle Hint 3: What is the starting letter for each word?
    – The first word (top-left) starts with “F”.
    – The second word (top-right) starts with “Q”.
    – The third word (bottom-left) starts with “P”.
    – The fourth word (bottom-right) starts with “F”.
  • Daily Quordle Hint 4: What does each word mean?
    – The first word (top-left) means “A general uproar or commotion”.
    – The second word (top-right) means “To say or declare”.
    – The third word (bottom-left) means “The principal part of a duet”.
    – The fourth word (bottom-right) means “To contend in physical conflict, either singly or in war, battle etc.”

If you still need help with today’s Quordle answer, you can try our Wordle Solver. Although it was built for Wordle, it can still help you narrow down the possible answers for Quordle as well.

Today’s Daily Quordle Answers

Spoiler alert: The Daily Quordle answers for today are provided below. Are you ready?

  • FUROR
  • QUOTH
  • PRIMO
  • FIGHT

If you managed to crack all four, great job! If not, don’t sweat it—there’s always another chance with tomorrow’s puzzles.

If you can’t wait till tomorrow, the Quordle game has many modes that you can try today. And yes, we have the answers and hints to help you out here as well.

Today’s Daily Chill Quordle Hints

The Daily Chill mode gives you 12 tries to get the 4 words. Here are some Quordle hints to help you get started:

  • Quordle Chill Hint 1: How many vowels are in each word?
    – First word (top-left) has 1 vowel.
    – Second word (top-right) has 3 vowels.
    – Third word (bottom-left) has 2 vowels.
    – Fourth word (bottom-right) has 2 vowels.
  • Quordle Chill Hint 2: How many double letters are there?
    – None of the words have repeated letters.
  • Quordle Chill Hint 3: Starting letter for each word:
    – First word: “A”
    – Second word: “I”
    – Third word: “W”
    – Fourth word: “V”

Today’s Daily Chill Quordle Answers

Haven’t solved it yet? Here are the answers for the Chill mode today, Sunday, October 05, 2025:

  • ANGRY
  • IMAGE
  • WHINE
  • VITAL

Today’s Daily Extreme Quordle Hints

Let’s look at the Quordle hints for the Extreme mode. Please note that you only have 8 tries!

  • Quordle Extreme Hint 1: Vowel count in each word:
    – First word: 2 vowels
    – Second word: 1 vowel
    – Third word: 3 vowels
    – Fourth word: 2 vowels
  • Quordle Extreme Hint 2: Double letters?
    – None of the words have repeated letters.
  • Quordle Extreme Hint 3: Starting letters:
    – First word: “E”
    – Second word: “B”
    – Third word: “Q”
    – Fourth word: “R”

Today’s Daily Extreme Quordle Answers

If you didn’t get a single answer, you might need to use your remaining turns carefully. Here are the answers for the Extreme mode today, Sunday, October 05, 2025:

  • ENJOY
  • BURLY
  • QUOTA
  • RUMBA

Today’s Quordle Sequence Hints

You’ve got 10 chances to solve the Sequence mode, but be strategic and don’t waste them all on your first guess. Check out these hints:

  • Vowels per word:
    – First word: 2 vowels
    – Second word: 2 vowels
    – Third word: 2 vowels
    – Fourth word: 3 vowels
  • Double letters:
    – First word and second word each have 1 letter repeated twice.
    – Third and fourth words have no repeated letters.
  • Starting letters:
    – First word: “M”
    – Second word: “C”
    – Third word: “I”
    – Fourth word: “H”

One tip to solving Quordle Sequence is to use three words with completely different letters. This will create a strong base when you try to solve the next word.

Today’s Quordle Sequence Answers

Here are the answers for Sequence mode today, Sunday, October 05, 2025:

  • MOODY
  • CANAL
  • IDLER
  • HAUTE

Today’s Quordle Weekly Challenge Hints

Let’s check out the Quordle hints for the Weekly Challenge:

  • Vowels per word:
    – First word: 2 vowels
    – Second word: 2 vowels
    – Third word: 2 vowels
    – Fourth word: 3 vowels
  • Double letters:
    – The third word has 1 letter repeated twice.
    – The other words have no repeated letters.
  • Starting letters:
    – First word: “C”
    – Second word: “B”
    – Third word: “S”
    – Fourth word: “A”

Today’s Answers for the Quordle Weekly Challenge

For the week of September 29th to October 5th, here are the Weekly Challenge answers:

  • CIDER
  • BUDGE
  • STEEP
  • ADORE

And that’s a wrap! Those are all the Quordle answers for the day.

Previous Quordle Answers

Looking for answers to previous Quordle puzzles? Here is a list of answers for Quordle’s Daily: Classic mode from the last 7 days:

  • October 4, 2025: AGING, INTER, SLUNG, GLOSS
  • October 3, 2025: BOUND, TWINE, GROSS, MUCKY
  • October 2, 2025: DIZZY, WACKY, APNEA, QUIET
  • October 1, 2025: DECRY, AMPLY, AGATE, ALARM
  • September 30, 2025: LITHE, WATER, FEMUR, FINCH
  • September 29, 2025: STINK, GROIN, TUBER, DROOP
  • September 28, 2025: AMUSE, TWEED, PINTO, TONIC

More Word Games to Try

If your thirst for word games hasn’t been quenched yet, may we suggest Blossom? It’s available on Merriam-Webster—the same place you’re playing Quordle.

If you need help in this game, you can use our Spelling Bee Solver tool. Yes, we made it for a different game but it works well for Blossom too.

We also have the answers for many other word games you can play on NYT Games. Check out today’s Connections Helper or Crossword Answers for NYT Mini.

https://www.sportskeeda.com/mobile-games/news-todays-quordle-answers-hints-october-5-2025

Premier League, Chelsea stun Liverpool 2-1 at Stamford Bridge: Stats

By Rajdeep Saha | Oct 05, 2025, 01:17 AM

**Chelsea Stun Liverpool with Last-Minute Winner from Estevao in Thrilling Premier League Clash**

In a thrilling Premier League encounter at Stamford Bridge on Sunday, October 5, 2025, Chelsea stunned Liverpool with a dramatic last-minute winner from Estevao. The home side took the lead through Moises Caicedo in the first half, but Liverpool fought back with an equalizer from Cody Gakpo in the second. Ultimately, it was Estevao’s stoppage-time strike that sealed a memorable 2-1 victory for Chelsea.

### Match Highlights

**Caicedo Gives Chelsea the Lead**

The match began cautiously, with both teams feeling each other out before an exciting contest developed. Chelsea broke the deadlock in the 14th minute when Moises Caicedo unleashed a stunning long-range shot that hit the top left corner of the net.

Liverpool responded quickly, nearly equalizing in the 18th minute through Cody Gakpo, whose shot from the left flank was expertly blocked by the Chelsea defense.

**Second Half Drama**

Chelsea looked to extend their lead before the break, with Alejandro Garnacho’s effort rattling the post in the 38th minute. Liverpool’s Alexander Isak also had a golden chance just before halftime, but his header sailed over the crossbar.

The second half started with Liverpool on the front foot. Mohamed Salah came close to leveling the score when his strike hit the side netting, keeping the game finely poised.

Liverpool finally drew level in the 63rd minute when Alexander Isak provided a perfect assist for Gakpo, who finished clinically.

The match remained intense as both teams created opportunities, but it was Estevao who emerged as the hero in stoppage time. Scoring from a low cross delivered by Marc Cucurella in the 95th minute, Estevao’s winner sent the Stamford Bridge crowd into raptures. Chelsea coach Enzo Maresca celebrated wildly on the touchline, delighted by the blow to the Premier League holders.

### Match Details and Stats

– Chelsea recorded 12 attempts with 6 shots on target.
– Liverpool managed 12 attempts but only 2 shots on target.
– In the opposition box, Chelsea had 22 shots compared to Liverpool’s 24.
– Chelsea held 53% possession while Liverpool had 47%.
– Chelsea earned 7 corners against Liverpool’s 2.

### Premier League Standings Update

Following this result, Liverpool sit 2nd in the Premier League with 15 points from 7 matches (W5 D0 L2). Chelsea are sixth with 11 points (W3 D2 L2).

### Opta Stats and Key Records

– Chelsea remain unbeaten in their last 5 Premier League matches against Liverpool (W2 D3).
– This marks Chelsea’s first victory over the Premier League holders since a 1-0 win at Anfield in March 2021.
– The Blues have recorded back-to-back league wins against Liverpool for the first time since November 2014.
– Liverpool are winless in their last 5 Premier League matches at Stamford Bridge.
– This is Chelsea’s second successive league win against Liverpool at home.

Chelsea’s late drama not only delights their fans but also signals a potential shift in momentum in one of the Premier League’s most storied rivalries.
https://www.newsbytesapp.com/news/sports/chelsea-beat-liverpool-in-premier-league/story

Palghar News: Boisar Erupts In Protest Against ₹19,000-Crore Murbe Port Project

Boisar MIDC Becomes Flashpoint as Villagers Protest Murbe Port Project

Palghar, Maharashtra: Boisar MIDC turned into a flashpoint on Saturday as angry villagers from Murbe and nearby fishing hamlets gathered outside the Jindal company gates, demanding that the upcoming public hearing on the Murbe Port project be scrapped. Holding black flags, women, fishermen, and sarpanches raised thunderous slogans — “Ek do ek do, Jindal Bandar fek do” — before setting fire to the port’s concept drawings. Some protesters even created a rangoli from the ashes, calling it the “end of the port dream.”

Locals Slam EIA Report, Cite Environmental Violations

The project, slated to be executed by JSW Infrastructure, is facing mounting resistance from local communities. Villagers allege that the Environmental Impact Assessment (EIA) report—spanning over 1,300 pages—is riddled with loopholes. They argue that no proper studies regarding the Coastal Regulation Zone (CRZ), Coastal Zone Management Plans (CZMPs), or other environmental safeguards were conducted. This lack of transparency has left them unable to raise informed objections during the upcoming public hearing.

Project Expansion Sparks Outrage

Originally designed for just three berths, the Murbe Port project has now expanded dramatically to 16 berths, with costs surging from ₹4,800 crore in October 2024 to nearly ₹19,000 crore. Locals allege that the government is misleading citizens to push through a project that would displace fishing communities and devastate the fragile coastline.

According to the proposed plans, 1,065 acres will be reclaimed, and a 10-kilometre breakwater wall will stretch from Morve to Satpati. “If seawalls stretch from Morve to Satpati, where will the water go? Into our villages!” shouted one protester.

Villagers Unite Under Virodhi Samiti Banner

The agitation is being led by the Murbe Jindal Bandar Virodhi Sangharsh Samiti, with president Monalisa Tare, secretary Pramod Arekar, treasurer Sachin Patil, and sarpanches from Murbe, Nandgaon, Kumbhavli, Alewadi, Nawapur, and Satpati at the forefront. Farmers, fishing society leaders, and several political representatives have joined the protest.

Villagers had earlier requested the district administration to postpone the public hearing, but receiving no response, the protests intensified. “We will not allow this port to come up. If the administration ignores us, our agitation will only get stronger,” warned the Samiti leaders.

Company and Government Assure Safeguards

Despite rising opposition, JSW Infrastructure and the Maharashtra Maritime Board maintain that environmental safeguards and social measures are integral parts of the project. The plan includes mangrove and coastal conservation efforts, a 123-hectare greenbelt, and dedicated provisions for traditional fishing activities.

The port is expected to generate approximately 2,000 construction jobs and 2,500 operational jobs, boosting trade across Palghar, Thane, Tarapur, and Vapi. A total of ₹50 crore has been earmarked for community benefits covering healthcare, education, infrastructure, skill development, environmental conservation, and sports facilities.

Public Hearing to Proceed Amid Heightened Tensions

The public hearing, scheduled for October 6, will take place amid heightened tensions. Locals have vowed to escalate protests if authorities continue to ignore the concerns of coastal residents. Environmental activists and the company representatives are expected to present their cases during the session.

https://www.freepressjournal.in/mumbai/palghar-news-boisar-erupts-in-protest-against-19000-crore-murbe-port-project

6 funny Bryce Underwood memes cracking up the internet as Michigan dominates Wisconsin in Week 6 games

Bryce Underwood led Michigan to a thrilling victory over Wisconsin at The Big House on Saturday.

With an impressive performance, Underwood showcased his skills and played a pivotal role in securing the win for the Wolverines.

Fans at The Big House witnessed an exhilarating game, highlighted by Underwood’s standout contributions throughout the match.
https://www.sportskeeda.com/college-football/news-6-funny-bryce-underwood-memes-cracking-internet-michigan-dominates-wisconsin-week-6-games

Porto vs Benfica Prediction and Betting Tips | October 5th 2025

Porto will welcome arch-rivals Benfica to the Estadio do Dragao in the Primeira Liga on Sunday in what promises to be an exciting clash between two of Portuguese football’s giants.

**Current Form and Standings**

The hosts, Porto, have maintained a perfect start to their league campaign, boasting a 100% record and sitting comfortably atop the league table. In fact, the Dragoes have preserved this flawless form across all competitions this season. They secured a dominant 4-0 away victory at Arouca on Monday, followed by a 2-1 home win over Crvena zvezda in the UEFA Europa League on Thursday.

Benfica, also known as the Aguias, have enjoyed an unbeaten run in the league as well, winning five of their seven matches. Their latest league outing saw them edge past Gil Vicente 2-1, courtesy of a brace from Vangelis Pavlidis. However, their Champions League campaign recently hit a snag with a narrow 1-0 defeat away to Chelsea on Tuesday.

**Porto vs Benfica Head-to-Head and Key Statistics**

This fixture, famously known as O Clássico, has been contested 257 times across all competitions. Porto holds a slight edge in the historical head-to-head record with 102 wins, while Benfica have won 93 times, and 62 games have ended in draws.

Last season, Benfica completed a league double against Porto, winning both home and away matches convincingly with 4-1 scorelines. This season, Porto leads the league’s goalscoring chart with 19 goals scored and only one conceded. Benfica, on the other hand, have conceded four goals so far, with three of those coming at home.

When it comes to home and away records this season, Porto has maintained a 100% record at Estadio do Dragao, keeping clean sheets in all matches. Benfica have also remained unbeaten away from home in the league, winning all three away games and keeping two clean sheets.

Interestingly, their last eight league meetings have produced decisive results, with each side claiming four wins. Benfica has won four of their last five encounters against Porto, showcasing their competitive edge in recent fixtures.

**Team News and Player Updates**

Porto will be bolstered by the return of Samu Aghehowa, who was rested against Crvena zvezda due to a minor knock. Pepe, who started on the bench recently, is also expected to return to the starting lineup.

Benfica, however, face challenges due to a viral outbreak impacting several players and staff, which could see manager Jose Mourinho missing key first-team players. Notably, Mourinho has yet to secure a victory against his former club at Estadio do Dragao, adding an intriguing subplot to this high-stakes encounter.

**Match Prediction**

Porto currently enjoys better form and squad availability compared to Benfica. With their strong defensive record — having conceded just two goals in nine games across all competitions — and potent attacking prowess, the Dragoes look poised to claim a vital home win.

Despite Benfica’s resilience and past successes in this fixture, their ongoing injury crisis might hamper their effectiveness. Porto’s recent home wins against the visitors have often featured three goals apiece, and this match is expected to be competitive and entertaining.

We predict a closely fought game with Porto edging Benfica by a 2-1 margin.

**Prediction:** Porto 2-1 Benfica

**Porto vs Benfica Betting Tips**

– **Tip 1:** Result — Porto to win
– **Tip 2:** Goals Over/Under 2.5 — Over 2.5 goals expected
– **Tip 3:** Both teams to score — Yes
– **Tip 4:** At least one goal to be scored in the second half — Yes

This showdown between two Portuguese titans is sure to captivate fans and could prove decisive in the race for the Primeira Liga crown. Stay tuned for what promises to be a fantastic O Clássico at Estadio do Dragao!
https://www.sportskeeda.com/football/porto-vs-benfica-prediction-betting-tips-october-5th-2025

Voices from the Arab Press: The world’s message to Netanyahu

Voices from the Arab Press: The World’s Message to Netanyahu

A weekly selection of opinions and analyses from the Arab media around the world.

US President Donald Trump and Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu held a joint press conference in the State Dining Room at the White House, Washington, DC, US, on September 29, 2025.

(Photo credit: REUTERS)

By THE MEDIA LINE

https://www.jpost.com/middle-east/article-869198

FLOURISHING AFTER 50: Mum promised my kids her house – and left us out

Dear Vanessa,

My husband and I are both 58, still working, and still paying off our mortgage. Our two adult children, in their early 20s, still live at home with us. Between the mortgage, bills, and supporting them, money is tight, and retirement feels like a long way off.

My mum, who is 80, recently told my kids before she even told me that she plans to leave her house directly to them when she passes, not to me. She says it’s so expensive for young people to buy property and she wants to give them a leg up.

I love that her intention is to help them, but it really hurt to be left out of the conversation. My husband keeps saying I should tell her that we need the money too, but I don’t want to make her feel guilty or worry about me. I just wish she had asked what I thought before making promises.

Now that the kids know about it, they’re almost waiting for that inheritance. It’s changed the way they talk about money, and I worry it’s made them less motivated to work harder for themselves, thinking that a big windfall is on the way.

Am I wrong to feel upset?
— Gwen

Dear Gwen,

You are not wrong at all. What you’re feeling is completely natural.

Wills are never just about money; they’re about being recognised, included, and respected. Your mum’s decision may have come from love and generosity, but telling your kids before talking to you has created a big emotional gap.

It’s wonderful that she wants to help your children in a tough housing market. But what she may not see is that you and your husband are still carrying heavy financial responsibilities, and her approach has created a problem for the next generation. By promising them her house now, she’s given them a sense of certainty that can easily take away the hunger to build their own future.

That’s why this situation needs both honesty and planning.

First, I’d encourage you to have a calm, open conversation with your mum—not about demanding her money, but about how her choice makes you and your husband feel, and the effect it’s already having on your kids. Let her know you love her intention but wish you had been consulted first.

Second, this is a moment where a financial planner could really help—not just for you, but for your mum too. They can show her options that might help the grandchildren without undermining their motivation or causing you and your husband to feel excluded. They can also suggest practical ways to structure an inheritance so it doesn’t create more problems than it solves.

If you’d like to explore this, you can use my free link to find an adviser.

This isn’t just about who gets what; it’s about family relationships and preparing the next generation to stand on their own feet. Your feelings are valid, and by raising this gently now, you give everyone a better chance of keeping both the love and the money intact.

All the best,
Vanessa
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15163089/FLOURISHING-50-Mum-promised-kids-house-left-out.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=1490

WNBA Commissioner Opens Up About Collier, Officiating And CBA

In Her Own Words: A Tough Week for WNBA Commissioner Cathy Engelbert

WNBA Commissioner Cathy Engelbert addressed the media this Friday in Las Vegas ahead of Game 1 of the WNBA Finals between the Las Vegas Aces and the Phoenix Mercury. It was the first time she took questions since Napheesa Collier publicly criticized league leadership, including Engelbert herself, for malpractice and a lack of concern for player safety and wellbeing.

Collier’s comments, made during her exit interview, sent shockwaves throughout the league. Several players, including WNBPA President Nneka Ogwumike, expressed support for her stance. However, it took a couple of days before Engelbert spoke directly to the media and took questions.

### Engelbert’s Opening Statement

In her opening remarks, Engelbert expressed feeling disheartened that players don’t approve of her leadership. She announced plans to address officiating concerns and expressed confidence in reaching a new Collective Bargaining Agreement (CBA) soon. These were the main themes during the press conference.

### Addressing Collier’s Claims

When asked about the accusations made by Collier, Engelbert contested and denied several claims.

“There’s a lot of inaccuracy out there through social media and reporting,” Engelbert said. “You saw it in my statement, but I have the utmost respect for Napheesa and every single player in our league. They are at the center of everything we do. No one should ever doubt how deeply I care about this league, this game, and every single player who makes the WNBA what it is.”

Engelbert also denied reports that she made controversial comments about Caitlin Clark needing to be grateful to the WNBA for her $16 million earned through partnerships.

“Obviously, I did not make those comments. Caitlin has been a transformational player in this league. She’s been a great representative of the game. She’s brought in tens of millions of new fans,” Engelbert stated.

### Can Engelbert Still Lead the League?

One pressing question is whether the commissioner can continue to lead the league amid eroding trust from players. Engelbert appears confident despite the challenges.

“I feel confident that we can repair any loss of trust,” she said. “We’ll dialogue with players — one-on-one relationships and group discussions. Players have reached out to me.”

### Officiating Concerns Highlighted

Engelbert acknowledged misalignment between the league’s stakeholders regarding officiating. According to injury trackers from ESPN and Rotowire, at least 30 players were sidelined either temporarily or for the rest of the 2025 season. This includes stars such as Caitlin Clark and Angel Reese, accounting for roughly 20% of roster pieces being displaced.

To tackle these concerns, the league is implementing two key initiatives:

1. **Annual Competition Committee Meeting:** At the end of the season, the league’s competition committee will evaluate the state of the game, including rules, officiating, and player safety. Players and the Players Association are invited to engage in this process.

2. **New Multi-Stakeholder Task Force:** The league is establishing a “state-of-the-game” committee that will include player voices and other stakeholders. This task force aims to ensure that officiating evolves alongside the league’s growth.

Engelbert emphasized the importance of player perspectives:

“There are no greater stakeholders than our players. Their voice is integral to the alignment required for good officiating. We look forward to including their input on how our staff can better serve the game moving forward.”

### CBA Negotiations Ongoing

The path ahead remains challenging for Engelbert, with a looming deadline for a new CBA. Uncertainty persists about whether players and the league will find common ground. While players predict a difficult negotiation that might lead to a lockout, Engelbert remains optimistic.

“We’re working really hard. We have a couple of meetings next week,” she said. “While I hope we meet the October 31st deadline — and that is a real deadline — we have extended deadlines in the past. When I started, a few days in, we extended the deadline and reached a progressive deal.”

Reflecting on her first months as commissioner in 2019 during previous CBA talks, Engelbert noted:

“We have a lot of experience in these negotiations, even before I got here. It’s a balance. We want to ensure there’s no interruption, but of course, that will be up to the players and owners.”

### The Revenue Share Debate

Revenue share remains a key point of contention. Players’ recent statements indicate dissatisfaction with the league’s offers, while Engelbert stresses the importance of long-term sustainability.

“We’ve made proposals with significant revenue share components — in money and structure,” Engelbert explained. “They’re obviously bargaining for more. The balance is between returning every dollar we can and ensuring owners remain incentivized to invest.”

### Players Continue to Support Collier

Following the press conference, some players reiterated their support for Napheesa Collier, continuing to apply pressure on the WNBA commissioner.

The coming weeks will be critical for the WNBA as it navigates leadership challenges, player concerns, and the future of the league’s labor agreement. Fans and stakeholders alike will be watching closely as dialogue and negotiations unfold.
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Voices from the Arab Press: The world’s message to Netanyahu

**Voices from the Arab Press: The World’s Message to Netanyahu**

*A weekly selection of opinions and analyses from the Arab media around the world.*

US President Donald Trump and Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu held a joint press conference in the State Dining Room at the White House, Washington, DC, on September 29, 2025.
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